Girls like guys who “get it”, but what does that mean? It can mean a lot of things, but one aspect of it is in regards to being high value.
Girls gain immense value from the moment they enter high school in the form of looks, and that carries its own challenges: while guys are thinking of ways to persuade girls of giving up the goods, girls are tasked with “managing the goods” a.k.a. not being a slut.
- And Socially Anxious
Then nobody is chasing you. If this is the case, then most likely you don’t see the issues in paragraph #2 as real problems. This is exactly how poor people see rich people’s problems: they don’t get it because it’s not relatable to them.
The easiest way I can think of explaining this is with lottery prize winners: imagine becoming that wealthy overnight and having strangers hit you up every day with their sad stories trying to convince you to give them some money, or people weaseling their way into your inner circle because they want you to do them a favor.
Sure, those problems are way better than hustling 80+ hours weekly for 10 years straight during your 20s with no guarantees that anything you do will work out, but the positive side is that those years of struggle somehow prepare you to “stay at the top” whenever you reach the top. Lottery prize winners are basically dropped off at the peak of Everest.
And so, if you see hot girls as lottery prize winners, you can see why they don’t care one bit about the hitchhickers putting in their best effort along the journey, they just want to contemplate the view with whoever is there too.
Conversely, hitchhickers don’t get how these “lottery prize winner girls who got dropped off at the peak” can complain about being bored at the top of the world and about how there are so few men up there. Hitchhickers need to spend enough time there to comprehend.
There are in fact few people up there, and if you made it to the top, would you settle for someone who gave up mid way? if you did, you could certainly never talk about how beautiful the view is from the peak, because that other person… won’t get it.
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