Welcome Player! This topic can go in two directions: when to give up on a lead (a girl you approached and gave you her number but it’s making it difficult to get a date) and when to give up on a girl who you wanted to be in a relationship with but never got to. […]
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Fitting Girls In A Tight Schedule
Welcome Player! Hope you enjoyed the festivities with your loved ones. We’ll start 2022 looking into one of the intermediate topics: if you’re spending your 20s building yourself it means you’ll have a packed schedule, so how do you find time to get better with girls, let alone date them once they’re interested? 1) Reframe […]
When To Give Up On A Girl (game edition)
This topic can go in two directions: when to give up on a lead (a girl you approached and gave you her number but it’s making it difficult to get a date) and when to give up on a girl who you wanted to be in a relationship with. In this post we’ll explore the […]
Why You Should Approach Girls Before You Are Ready
“There’s this cute girl in my gym/class/group I want to talk to but I’m nowhere near where I wanna be in my life. Part of me says fuck it, start a conversation and go after her anyway and the other part of me says I’m not at a version of myself yet where I feel […]
Why Girls’ Advice On Dating Sucks
The most common dating advice from girls is “just be yourself”. It’s actually not 100% bad advice, but it needs a lot of context to be useful advice, context that most guys don’t have. In a previous article called “How does love actually work?” I described the 4 bases and how girls are born in […]
Handling Rejection
Being rejected sucks. But it’s not the end of the world either. Many guys blow this out of proportion and end up embarrassing themselves even further by trying to save face insulting the girl or telling her it’s her loss. I strongly advise you to not do that. Yes, it stings, but no amount of […]