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The standard advice among overachievers is “focus on money first, girls will come later”. This is good advice, but without clarification it also introduces a huge risk. Let me paint you a scenario: You’re a young hot shot in software engineering who gets a 6-fig offer right out of college. After a few years on […]

AKA how to get out of the friendzone. I’ve been there, endlessly pining over a girl who is always nice but never available for a date. Patiently waiting to take a shot, living for accidental touches and short-lived flirting moments while looking at her pictures every day. If you’re in this situation, which has become […]

One of the most common issues guys reach to me about is approach anxiety. We’ll look into how to move past it in this post. Quick recap on how you get a date with a pretty girl: you go out, approach a girl you would like to ask out, start talking, have a good time […]

If you keep working on yourself, you’ll inevitably run into this scenario sooner or later: a girl who rejected you in the past starts reconsidering it and starts flirting with you. This is incredibly common in your late 20s and (I’ve been told) after 30 *if* you spend your 20s getting in good shape, building […]

Welcome Player! This topic can go in two directions: when to give up on a lead (a girl you approached and gave you her number but it’s making it difficult to get a date) and when to give up on a girl who you wanted to be in a relationship with but never got to. […]

Welcome Player! Hope you enjoyed the festivities with your loved ones. We’ll start 2022 looking into one of the intermediate topics: if you’re spending your 20s building yourself it means you’ll have a packed schedule, so how do you find time to get better with girls, let alone date them once they’re interested? 1) Reframe […]