A long-term relationship is like a never-ending tennis match. There are two players, you and your girlfriend, and the goal is scoring as many points as you can against your partner. Every time you score a point, your girl loves you more. Every time she scores a point, she loves you less. But there’s a […]
Relationships
How To Avoid Toxicity – Part 2
Last week we looked into how to avoid being toxic. Now we’ll look into how to avoid toxicity from entering your life. While the word “toxic” is used pretty loosely these days, my intention with this post is showing behavior that although it may seem normal or small in the beginning, causes big trouble down […]
How To Avoid Toxicity
While the word “toxic” gets thrown out a lot lately, there are instances you’ll really want to avoid. In this post we’ll look into how to avoid being toxic and next week we’ll look into how to stop toxicity from entering your life How to avoid toxicity There are 3 areas that a guy in […]
Why She Broke Up With You
Most men are blissfully unaware of the significant issues in their relationship until the woman can’t take it anymore and walks out. This seems sudden, irrational and extreme but the truth is that most of the times issues have been piling up for a looong time with the man thinking everything worked out fine after […]
Is Marriage Even Worth It?
Unlike women, men can find fulfillment as a perpetual bachelor. In this post we’ll look at the decision tree to determine if marriage is a good decision for you. Is Marriage Necessary? Getting married is not an obligation. You don’t have to get married if it doesn’t serve your purposes and you shouldn’t let yourself […]
Why Does She Say I Don’t “Try Hard” Anymore?
Tl;dr: you inflated her expectations during the initial dating stages and now that you cut back on that she’s resenting the attention withdrawal symptoms. Girls say things that sound confusing (to guys) because their feelings are their initial point of view. They talk clearly when their feelings are positive, you’ll hear her saying “I’m happy”. […]