Most girls don’t have game.
They don’t need it, they’ll end up as upper-middle class SAHMs if they manage to stay thin until the day of their wedding.
But every now and then you meet a girl who keeps breaking hearts of guys who seem a bit too good for her.
What’s her secret?
How to Tell if a Girl has Game
She dates up
This is the most obvious tell: results.
Like every other woman on this planet, her hypergamy makes her desire men who have a higher status than her, the difference is that she’s able to date them while *also* retaining control of the relationship: She’s the settler, even when dating an alpha.
Back in the day I met a girl who dated quite a few of my friends who were talented players and every single one of them got his heart broken. I hated her guts, but gotta recognize she got what she wanted every time.
She tries to disqualify you to get her to chase
At one point this girl started dating “seriously” one of my close friends, so at a school event we were waiting for him and she asks me where I went to high school. After I told her, she starts rambling about all the guys she dated from that school and ends with “that’s why I couldn’t be your girlfriend… that would be too many guys from X high school.”
Now, this girl was a 7 at 18, wearing high heels, and the best dress she could find… a 6 on normal days, and more importantly, my buddy’s gf, so safe to say I had never even considered dating her. And as I said, I hated her guts for what she made my friends go through.
But at that moment, for a split second, a thought crossed my mind: “why tf not?”. Then I realized that’s her game: she assumes guys want to date her, plants the seed in their minds and then disqualifies them so that she gets plausible deniability… any and all consequences and fault fall on the guy.
She plays the role of the siren
Girls who are in this position are usually their current bf’s “muse”, a source of inspiration.
Robert Greene describes “Sirens” as girls who ooze sexual energy, like Marilyn Monroe, probably the most famous example of a siren. Their feminine energy is so addictive that even when they’re not the most attractive, they’re the ones you end up most attracted to.
I remember a friend of mine with a drooling face, playing a song for this girl while looking at her singing along. I didn’t understood it at the time, but I do now: that girl had game.
New readers:
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