There are two areas we need to take care of in order to attract girls: Excitement and Comfort. Excitement refers to all things seduction: being hot, teasing her, danger, adrenaline, one night stands, nightclubs, parties, that sort of things. Comfort on the other side refers to all things commitment: being her boyfriend, giving her flowers, […]
What To Do When A Girl That Rejected You Starts Reconsidering it
If you keep working on yourself, you’ll inevitably run into this scenario sooner or later: a girl who rejected you in the past starts reconsidering it and starts flirting with you. This is incredibly common in your late 20s and (I’ve been told) after 30 *if* you spend your 20s getting in good shape, building […]
When To Give Up On A Girl (something serious edition)
Welcome Player! This topic can go in two directions: when to give up on a lead (a girl you approached and gave you her number but it’s making it difficult to get a date) and when to give up on a girl who you wanted to be in a relationship with but never got to. […]
Fitting Girls In A Tight Schedule
Welcome Player! Hope you enjoyed the festivities with your loved ones. We’ll start 2022 looking into one of the intermediate topics: if you’re spending your 20s building yourself it means you’ll have a packed schedule, so how do you find time to get better with girls, let alone date them once they’re interested? 1) Reframe […]
Book II: The Art of Building Highly Addictive Relationships
My second book, The Art of Building Highly Addictive Relationships has been completed and is available for pre-order Here. It’ll launch on dec 24 12:00 PM (midday) at $29.99 but if you pre-order it you can get it for $19.99 (33% discount) I consider my first book The Game of Casual Dating a success, it […]
Why Men Shouldn’t Get Jealous
Men shouldn’t get jealous, and there’s a simple reason why. First, let’s revisit the basics: why is a girl attracted to you? Because you’re a high-value man. If you were a low-value man you would be friendzoned or ignored, but you’re not, so you’re a high-value man in her eyes. Now for the important question […]