Whenever something worries me, I put on paper the positive scenario and the negative scenario. I calculate the odds of each scenario happening, and then I write down the concrete steps I would take to fix the worst-case scenario. This process gives me tranquility first because it shows me that the negative scenario is much […]
Why knowing her cycle is important
After blowing up my chances earlier this year with what I consider the best girl I’ve ever dated, one thing became clear: attracting girls and keeping girls are two different games that require different skillsets. One of the insights that this short relationship gave me is how beneficial it is to know her cycle: since […]
What is an Alpha male?
When people hear “alpha male” they often think in the leader of a tribe. Which naturally makes people say things like “A true alpha male provides for the ones he cares”, “A true alpha male goes for what he wants”, A true alpha male this and a true alpha male that. Basically equating “Alpha male” […]
How to develop an abundance mindset
When it comes to dating, an abundance mindset is the notion that you can generate options for yourself, since there is a huge amount of women out there and there’s nothing stopping you from talking to each and every one of them Of course, not every girl will fall for you but any one of […]
How does love actually work?
Most guys have asked their female friends for dating advice. Makes sense, right? get the information straight from the horse’s mouth. What most don’t consider though, is that women have a reputation to maintain, so everything they tell you gets filtered to a socially acceptable level. Additionally, most women like to keep their options open: […]
The 1-10 attractiveness scale
The 1-10 attractiveness scale is usually used to quickly describe how attracted you are to a girl. While most men use a 1-10 scale to describe how objectively hot a girl is, this approach tries to get consensus and ignores the subjective element: preferences. I’ve found that it is more descriptive to include tastes in […]