Whenever men hear “feminism” the image that comes to mind is that of a morbidly obese, blue-haired girl with an art history degree and 6-figure debt yelling that she doesn’t want your compliment. Conversely, when women hear “red pill” the image that comes to mind is either that of a balding middle aged guy who […]
A Man Who “Gets It”
Girls like guys who “get it”, but what does that mean? It can mean a lot of things, but one aspect of it is in regards to being high value. Girls gain immense value from the moment they enter high school in the form of looks, and that carries its own challenges: while guys are […]
What is a High Value man
One of the biggest realizations I had when I started dating consistently was that women don’t really care about a man’s moral “goodness”. They don’t categorize men in terms of good and bad, but rather in terms of winners and losers. Just like men don’t really care about a woman’s degree in a dating context […]
Unlocking FWB Status
Definition FWB: Friends with benefits. That is, having sex with a girl on a regular basis without being a couple. If this is the first time you’re hearing the term, you’re probably thinking “wait… that sounds awesome! but do girls actually accept that sort of arrangement?” Yes they do, the only thing they ask of […]
Dealing with pregnancy scares
Whenever something worries me, I put on paper the positive scenario and the negative scenario. I calculate the odds of each scenario happening, and then I write down the concrete steps I would take to fix the worst-case scenario. This process gives me tranquility first because it shows me that the negative scenario is much […]
Why knowing her cycle is important
After blowing up my chances earlier this year with what I consider the best girl I’ve ever dated, one thing became clear: attracting girls and keeping girls are two different games that require different skillsets. One of the insights that this short relationship gave me is how beneficial it is to know her cycle: since […]