This blog is dedicated to helping men improve their dating life.
Unfortunately most dating advice online is sketchy or misguided. It promises you’ll get 9s and 10s if you simply act confident and memorize some pickup lines. That’s straight BS. “Just learn some game!” without bothering to improve yourself is the dating equivalent of sweeping dust under the rug.
Game is akin to sales. If you build it and then don’t market it, they won’t come.
Value is how much you’re worth as a man (Looks + Money + Status). If your product is useless, it doesn’t matter if you’re the best salesman in the world, no one will buy it.
You need to learn both parts in order to succeed with women, and I’m here to help you with that. I’ll give you the rough answers that you need to hear and that others won’t say because they’re too scared of telling you that there’s no magic pill that immediately solves all your lady problems and that you need to work your ass off to get better at this.
Who am I?
You can call me DC, nice to meet you.
I’m an engineer and businessman from LatAm who got friendzoned a lot during high school and college. I had zero dates, awkward social skills and a general feeling of hopelessness.
When I graduated, I decided to turn things around by reverse engineering the dating process, first dating 5s, then 6s, then 7s and now giving my first steps with 8s. Not gonna lie, this journey has been tough but also incredibly fun. I haven’t dated 9s yet (these girls are models, think Victoria Secret Angels, they are for men who are athletes, rich or famous), but I keep getting better and I do think everything is possible.
This blog details the lessons I’ve learned through this journey and what I’m still learning.
Game: In the beginning everything is a numbers game. Some want what you have to offer, some don’t. The purpose of this section is to understand how to actually start talking to girls, get dates, what to do on those dates, how to keep a conversation going and how to bring a girl back home.
Relationships: After playing the field for a while, you may find a girl (or several) you enjoy spending time with and what you’ll notice is that attracting a girl and keeping a girl are two different games. Keeping a girl has lessons that you didn’t needed for one night stands or first dates. It’s a whole new world and possibilities are endless.
Theory: This topic explores the reasons why girls are attracted to certain traits in males and viceversa, along with the explanation for several behaviors of both genders. This section may include some tough pills to swallow, but the main goal is to understand why the world works the way it does, so that you can refine your strategies, not so that you get bitter. Remember: 50% of the population is from the opposite gender.