In this blog I’ve been teaching you a lot of what you need to know about women, but what about what you can learn FROM them?
What Can Men Learn From Women
Abundance is the default mode in girls’ operating system. They’ve been hit on since they entered high school until today, 10 minutes ago. Think they haven’t learned a thing or two out of this experience?
Most guys are trying to find one girl they can make their girlfriend. If they manage to do so, they start walking on eggshells around her so she won’t get pissed and abandon them over a disagreement. This of course leads to terrible marriages where the woman takes the shots and the man is reduced to being the person who pays for everything, the butt of the jokes and who always takes the blame for everything. Obviously this leads to a dead bedroom too.
An abundance mentality fixes this. If there are 10 hot girls waiting to meet you, do you really care about not pissing off the one girl you’re talking to? this is why girls are not afraid of leaving you on seen or flaking on your first date, she knows that if things don’t work out with you, they’ll work out with another guy. This is how you should think too.
Girls get hit on so frequently that they had to come up with some kind of filter: bitchy attitude.
This scares away most men with fragile self-esteem and little to no experience. Since they have their pick of men, they’re gonna filter for the most confident ones, which is what they’re attracted to.
This is something men should learn more about. Most men will sleep with whatever they can get, but a little bit of vetting goes a long way. It’s not the same to sleep with some crazy feminist who woke up early to tweet about how much she hates men than with a sweet woman who woke up early to prepare you breakfast.
Most guys have never ended a relationship, it’s always the girl who breaks up with them. Doing this is hard, never mind most twitter gurus who tell you “just walk out”, most guys haven’t actually walked out from a LTR with a girl they intended to marry.
Most girls have. Being the one who initiates the breakup requires a certain mindset shift. You need to stop being passive and start imposing your will on the world: I don’t want this anymore, so it’s over.
You stop being prey to become the predator. You are causing heartache to another person, to someone who loves you and doesn’t want to lose you, maybe even begs you to stay, but that you have recognized she’s not what you want anymore.
Sometimes this needs to be done, and if you don’t manage to do it, you’ll stay in a suboptimal relationship far more than you should have.
In my twitter account and on my blog I tell you what to do. In my books, I tell you how to do it:
My first book, “The Game of Casual Dating” is a guide that will teach you how to go from getting 0 girls to meeting, dating and sleeping with girls you find attractive by building a solid foundation of social skills. No rehearsed lines, no deceiving, no sketchy tricks. Just pure skill and female psychology knowledge. You can buy it Here.
My second book, “The Art of Building Highly Addictive Relationships” is a guide that will teach you which girls are worth keeping around and how to build relationships with them in which they can’t get enough of you. You can buy it Here.
My third book, “Guide to Date Latinas” will teach you how to meet, date and sleep with latinas, their psychology and specific quirks. It has all the insights you need to find latinas in your country, safely visit Latin America and relocating for the long-term if you choose to do so. You can get it Here.
“Introvert Game” is a guide that will help you attain a deeper understanding of your personality as an introvert and figuring out how to seduce women by playing to your strengths rather than trying to swim upstream using guides designed for extroverts. You can buy it Here.
If you’re ready to make a real change in your dating life, book a one-hour call with me Here