Thinking two steps ahead in a long-term relationship, most guys have figured out that however their girl’s mom looks like now is how their girl is gonna look in a few decades.
But what about the dad?
I have shared in the past that one of the most useful parts of understanding the girl’s dad is that, since women are attracted to men who resemble their fathers, you can see where his life took a bad turn and do everything in your power to avoid it. Since you are the same “archetype” as him, your propensity is to make the same mistakes as him.
That being said, not all fathers in law are created equal and in this post we’ll look into why a rich alpha is the ideal father in law.
Why The Best Father In Law You Can Ask For Is A Rich Alpha
No Bail Outs
If you grew up lower or middle class and found monetary success relatively early in life, one of the surprises your relatives have for you is that they’ll start asking you to lend them money or straight out bail them out of their bad debt. Often (very often).
If your father in law went through the same thing and his voicemail is full of relatives asking for $$$, you’re in luck. No, not so that you can take advantage but rather because everyone on your girl’s side of the family knows he’s the go-to guy when they have a monetary problem: They’ll go to him instead of you.
While it’s easy to discard this as “why should I bail these people out, they’re not even my relatives”, one of the worst situations to be in is when your girl’s dad is broke and either him or your girl’s wife have a medical emergency. Or when they get into a car crash and need their car to go to work. Or when he has his nth “genius” business idea that requires funding.
Your life will be much more peaceful if he’s someone others can lean into, and not someone that needs to lean into you.
Well Defined Gender Roles
A father who is respected by his wife is also respected by his daughters. In his household you won’t find feminist nonsense, at least not in any serious matter since nowadays it’s more of a club than a serious ideology, no “he has hands, he can serve his own plate”.
The daughter of an alpha may test you pretty hard, but she won’t try to dominate you or lead you in any way, since her intentions are finding a man who is as strong as her dad, unlike masculine women whose goal is emasculation of the men they date.
If your girl always saw her father with an hectic schedule due to the nature of business, that’s what she’ll come to expect from you.
If on the other hand her father worked a boring 9-5 and was always on time for the family dinner, she’ll expect you to be there too, and if your work requires you to stay long hours or travel, you’re in for a bad ride.
Growing up as an alpha (athletic, attractive to girls, able to speak up) is a solid 10 year advantage.
Guys who need to figure out on their own how women work usually end up getting good results by the time they’re in the mid or late 20s and enough experience to choose a long-term partner by the time they’re in their early to mid 30s. An alpha has been getting girls since high school and by the time he’s 22-25 he’s already “retired”.
If you’re in the camp of those of us who started getting results until we were in our 20s, you’re probably gonna pass on this knowledge so that your sons figure all this earlier in life, and with a good example of a father and a good example of a grandfather, they’ll have a very hard time f*cking up.
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