Lately, female influencers have been getting vocal about men not wanting to date women with a high body count.
“Should men care about a woman’s body count?”
First of all, whatever consensus women reach about this topic should be IRRELEVANT to you. You came to this side of the internet to learn what has worked for men who have been where you are and who got what you want to get, not to become indoctrinated by a women-approved manual that aims to create better plow horses with lower standards.
Of course you should care about a woman’s body count, and in this post I’ll tell you why the best women are the least slutty.
Why Better Women Are Less Slutty
Reason #1: Hypergamy
The reason why the best women are the least slutty is due to hypergamy: a woman can’t be sexually attracted to a man whom she sees as beneath her.
This means that while a 9 has near unlimited options, she’s only attracted to men who are at that level or higher, this means men who are rich, athletes or famous. That’s the top 1% or less.
Contrast this with your average 6. While 9s are models/actresses, 6s are girls you find kind of cute but wouldn’t feel proud showing around in public. These women accept a WIDE range of men. As noted in the previous post How To Start Dating 7s, to date 7s you just need to have a white collar job (not even a good one), not be fat, dress normal and not be socially awkward.
6s have even lower standards (you can get away with being a bit overweight for example), which means a lot of men are “good enough” to f*ck these women.
While any girl can stay a virgin until marriage regardless of her physical appearance, it’s easy to see the colossal difference between rejecting 5 men you find attractive and rejecting 3,000 men you find attractive.
As always, better to rely on systems rather than on force of will.
Reason #2: Ability To Get Commitment From Men
Attractive women don’t have a hard time finding men willing to make them SAHMs with upper-middle class lifestyle (at minimum).
If the guy they’re dating has doubts, he’s out. They don’t need to deal with ambiguity. If the guy has lots of potential but no results, he’s out. They don’t need to bet on a guy with potential since their looks can afford them the finished product.
6s on the other hand… welp, they get thrown into the rotation of a guy who can date better girls and start competing for his commitment: “yes, she’s prettier but… but… I swallow and I’m open to threesomes!”.
She has to consistently bring her A game and even then guys don’t commit to her (why would he if he already did the work to date 7s, 8s, 9s?) so she gets passed around A LOT.
Reason #3: Insecurity
Another reason why less attractive women sleep around more often is due to insecurity.
8s and 9s KNOW they are attractive, they’ve got nothing to prove. Similar to how self-made men have that calm confidence / real deal energy.
6s on the other hand have no tangible proof that they’re desirable. Similar to frustrated guys, they’ll do everything in their power to “appear” they’re rich/beautiful for ego reasons. In the case of unattractive women this can be in the shape of sleeping with 200 men and voilà, she can now say 200 men have found her desirable.
As you can see, girls who are more attractive tend to be higher quality in general: lower body count, fewer insecurities to deal with, fewer traumas to heal, fewer low-value behaviors to get rid of.
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