Why Girls Do Shit Tests
Girls shit test you as part of their vetting process.
It should come as no surprise that many men are talkers. They say they’re gonna do X, Y and Z and after one year they haven’t even started on the X.
Getting involved with a talker is dangerous for a girl because it means every word that comes out of his mouth is potentially a lie. What happens when the guy keeps promising a ring, the good life and companionship for a lifetime, she puts out all her 20s and then the day she turns 30 he dumps her?
What about the guy living the credit card rich life and the moment she sleeps with him, he gets uncovered as an unemployed brokie in crippling debt?
Let’s face it: when horny, most men will say ANYTHING that convinces women to sleep with them, even if that means empty promises. I don’t endorse that at all, I’m just saying that that’s what most men do in that situation.
This is why smart girls protect the goods. Either they have been burned in the past or someone wise instructed them on it, they know that the only girls who don’t vet men end up getting called either dumb or hoes.
My favorite analogy for shit tests is that girls are like birds who want to rest for a while in a branch. The smart way to go about doing that is testing the strength of the branch before putting their full weight on it (this test is the shit test). Otherwise the branch could break and the bird would fall to the floor and get hurt.
What does it mean when a girl shit tests me?
If a girl is shit testing you it means she sees you as a potential mate but is doing due diligence first.
The examples above centered around security (loyalty, resources), but girls also shit test to see if you’re worthy of sleeping with them. Remember that girls don’t like needy, weak, directionless men, so if she has any doubt of you in these areas, you’ll get a shit test for it.
It’s just a way of confirming you’re not full of BS.
Anyone can say they have an abundance mindset, but once the girl asks “How many women have you slept with?” most will freeze and blurt out some half baked answer that is either true or false but in any case, disappoints her.
You see, she doesn’t care about how many women you have slept with, she wants to know if you’re scared of losing her. Of course, simply saying your real number takes the fun out of it (remember she is ruled by emotion: fun or boredom) so instead you could say something like: “You mean today?” this isn’t boring or tactless, and it’s certainly not needy.
While this may sound like overly complicated, the thing is that girls do shit tests because their well-being depends on getting the actual truth, and this is the best way they know how to get genuine answers.
What if my girlfriend suddenly started shit testing me?
That means trouble in paradise, my friend.
She probably saw something in you that she didn’t liked: a weakness, an insecurity, needy tendencies, etc. The thing is that seeing that in you scares the shit out of her. Imagine catching your boss crying over not knowing how to make ends meet by the time payroll day comes, it’s roughly the same thing.
She’ll want to investigate and the most practical way of reaching the truth is by doing a shit test. Once her doubts have been mitigated, she’ll stop shit testing you because she knows shit tests are annoying and doing them too often will drive you away from her.
But initially, she can’t afford not to do them.
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