For guys who struggled to get girls their whole lives, learning game comes with a lot of revelations: girls are not the innocent princesses you were told about, nice guys are not truly nice, the man is the prize not the woman… among many others.
Coming to these realizations is a good thing if you apply them towards getting what you want out of life, which of course is the main goal here. The problem comes when men notice bad female behavior out in the wild and feel the need to call it out.
Imagine being on a date and the girl hands you the restaurant bill and says “since you invited me, you’re paying”. Now, if you tell her something along the lines of “how convenient, girls never ask men out so we’ll always be the ones paying for everything”, the first though that is gonna cross her mind is “this guy is BITTER” and the second one is gonna be “this guy is an INCEL” while her expression changes from shock to disgust.
Yep, you’re not getting her into bed after saying that.
This is a triple shocker, first because she’s gonna feel judged as if she were a bum (extra ego damage if she sees herself as a “strong, independent woman”), second because the moment you openly advocate for men’s rights you’re categorized as an incel, and third because most guys *don’t* usually know a lot about intersexual dynamics (beyond their go-to move to show interest in a girl), so explaining in detail how women work makes you sound like a sociopath.
So what do you do in these kind of scenarios?
You judge them internally.
In the example above, if you just keep your mouth shut and go with the motions temporarily, you’ll most likely sleep with the girl and get to decide later if you want her to stick around or not. You don’t like her worldview? that’s fine, kick her out. You really liked her and don’t really mind about what she said earlier? that’s fine too, all I’m saying is don’t fumble the p*ssy just because you can’t keep your mouth shut. Do you to win the argument or do you want to get laid?
Openly judging things like tattoos and revealing clothes is pretty common. If you don’t want a girlfriend who has tattoos and wears revealing clothes, and you go out with a girl who has tattoos and wears revealing clothes, don’t go off ranting about how no man will commit to that.
Judge her internally and come up with your own conclusion about her.
Is she girlfriend material or is she just for fun? treat her accordingly. Don’t try to change her, don’t try to fix her, that’s just who she is.
In my twitter account and on my blog I tell you what to do. In my books, I tell you how to do it:
My first book, “The Game of Casual Dating” is a guide that will teach you how to go from getting 0 girls to meeting, dating and sleeping with girls you find attractive by building a solid foundation of social skills. No rehearsed lines, no deceiving, no sketchy tricks. Just pure skill and female psychology knowledge. You can buy it Here.
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