Every man has its opinion on cheating.
Some say men don’t cheat, they “exercise options”, others that your girl gets first crack at your libido, not sole custody and others say that it’s simply wrong.
My opinion is that if you want to keep living the bachelor life forever (no kids) then it doesn’t matter. Actually, you shouldn’t be in a monogamous relationship in the first place since there is literally NOTHING you gain by giving up your commitment that you can’t freely get with other girls. If you want to have kids though, my opinion is that you shouldn’t cheat.
Here’s my train of thought:
If you want kids, the best thing you can do for them is giving them a stable, two-parent, upper class home to grow in. In order to do this, you need to maintain a good long-term relationship with the highest quality woman you can get. Cheating then, means risking the stability of your household because if you get caught, the relationship with your woman will change forever (for the worse, of course).
“DC, you don’t understand, I’m an ALPHA MALE. My girl has to understand this and come to terms with it”.
Fine, do what you want. All I’m saying is that I have seen multiple times how a man’s cheating kickstarted the decline of his life: immense pain to his wife, loss of authority in his household, loss of respect by his sons and daughters, expenses of his dual life spiraling out of control. They lose the “stable” part of their gift to their children first, then the “two-parent” part, and finally the “upper class” part.
“DC, I won’t get caught, I’m too smart”
That’s what every cheater thinks, until they get caught. Here are the most popular ways cheaters get caught:
How You’ll Get Caught If You Cheat On Your Girl
1. You’ll Tell Her Out Of Guilt
Many guys cheat and then feel so remorseful that they eventually come clean expecting their girls to be understanding and value their honesty and courage as long as they promise to never do it again.
These men are dumb.
When it comes to securing men’s resources, women are cut throat. So in their eyes, all your feelings of regret and promises to change are meaningless excuses for your impulses. You were playing hide and seek and just yelled your position because of your feelz.
Look, the past is in the past. If you already did it, be a man and bury the guilt in the deepest, darkest part of your brain expecting to forget about it one day and simply act right from now on. Don’t ask HER to carry the load that YOU decided to put on yourself.
2. The Side Girl Will Tell Her To Steal Her Position
Don’t be a dummy who tries to date both her and her best friend/sister/mom or any girl you both have constant contact with.
Girls will ALWAYS strive to be #1 in your life if you date them long-term, so if you’re gonna do this, keep the side girls as one night stands. Otherwise, get ready because you just bought front row tickets to the newest homebreakers drama.
3. A Friend Of Her Who Saw You Will Tell Her
If you have room temperature IQ and go pick up a ONS on the regular spots you visit with your girl, of course you’re gonna get noticed.
I have a theory that women evolved to want popular men so that they’ll get recognized easily if they’re trying to cheat (extreme case is famous men which are recognized worldwide, of course).
If you’re gonna cheat, always do it out of town, where nobody knows who you are.
4. The Venue Will Tell On You (kiss cams, SM photos)
This is a consequence of wanting to date long-term more than one woman.
You don’t need to take a ONS to a baseball game, you don’t need to follow them on social media, you don’t even need to know where they live.
Don’t cheat, but if you’re gonna do it anyway, at least be clear on what you want: pussy, ass, tits. Not love, not companionship, not a new mom for your kids.
5. You’ll Catch An STD And Need To Explain
This one is real sneaky.
You may be smart enough to avoid all the previous traps, but if the girl you slept with had an STD, now both you and your girl have it too, and chances are your girl is smart enough to calculate the average time it takes to show symptoms and correlate it with your latest work trip.
You can avoid many STDs by using a condom, but what many don’t consider is that you can also catch STDs with skin to skin contact. One of these diseases is VPH, you know, the most common STD in the world.
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