The idea of “a Submissive Woman” is intriguing to say the least if all you’ve met is arrogant, bossy, feminists.
The problem is assuming that there are submissive women and non-submissive women. This kind of thinking has guys thinking they have to find a girl who is naturally submissive, but this is a mistake.
I made this mistake with a previous girlfriend.
At the time, I had just broken up with the first attractive girl I dated thanks to game (a 7), she was a lawyer and not submissive at all. I wanted to take my mind off her and so I hopped in on a few dating apps. A few dates later, I went out on a date with a girl who was as attractive as lawyer girl but with almost the exact opposite personality: shy, quiet, went along with everything I wanted to do no questions asked.
I slept with her on the first date (then 3 months later I asked her to be my girlfriend, like a dumbass). Being inexperienced in LTRs while getting good results with game, I misunderstood this as genuine desire + pleasing personality (submissive) = girlfriend material.
The issues came later. Turns out she didn’t had any female friends because “girls hated her”, which sounded weird but I thought “well, she’s cute so maybe other girls are simply jealous”. But stories kept adding up until one of them made it all click. In one of her birthdays (15 or 16) some guy came over and grabbed her hand to dance with her, then he kissed her, and the guy’s girlfriend got pissed.
While she was telling the story I just kept thinking “tf you mean by ‘he wanted to dance with me and then kissed me, I was nervous because his girlfriend was there watching’? why didn’t you REFUSED?”. So that’s why girls hated her: because guys could do whatever they wanted with her.
So that was that. She was submissive to me because she was submissive to all men, not because I was inspiring it. Be it as it may, I got to experience submission and during that time I learned about polarity, dominance, my shadow, etc.
The silver lining was that after I broke up with her, I decided to experience the real thing: inspire submission on a woman who is not submissive to men, but submissive to me. One that makes rules for others but breaks them for me. Thankfully everything worked out for the best and now I expect submission from any girlfriend I have, which is great because it means I’ve internalized “dominance”.
The truth is that ALL women are submissive to a man who leads.
By searching for “a submissive woman” you’re just asking to get scammed, like I was. The answer is not out there, it is within you. You have the capability to inspire submission on women, which is good news: if you develop this skillset, then it doesn’t matter if your girlfriend and you break up, you’ll inspire submission on any future girlfriend you may have.
In my twitter account and on my blog I tell you what to do. In my books, I tell you how to do it:
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