If you keep working on yourself, you’ll inevitably run into this scenario sooner or later: a girl who rejected you in the past starts reconsidering it and starts flirting with you. This is incredibly common in your late 20s and (I’ve been told) after 30 *if* you spend your 20s getting in good shape, building […]
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When To Give Up On A Girl (something serious edition)
Welcome Player! This topic can go in two directions: when to give up on a lead (a girl you approached and gave you her number but it’s making it difficult to get a date) and when to give up on a girl who you wanted to be in a relationship with but never got to. […]
Fitting Girls In A Tight Schedule
Welcome Player! Hope you enjoyed the festivities with your loved ones. We’ll start 2022 looking into one of the intermediate topics: if you’re spending your 20s building yourself it means you’ll have a packed schedule, so how do you find time to get better with girls, let alone date them once they’re interested? 1) Reframe […]
When To Give Up On A Girl (game edition)
This topic can go in two directions: when to give up on a lead (a girl you approached and gave you her number but it’s making it difficult to get a date) and when to give up on a girl who you wanted to be in a relationship with. In this post we’ll explore the […]
Why You Should Approach Girls Before You Are Ready
“There’s this cute girl in my gym/class/group I want to talk to but I’m nowhere near where I wanna be in my life. Part of me says fuck it, start a conversation and go after her anyway and the other part of me says I’m not at a version of myself yet where I feel […]
Why Girls’ Advice On Dating Sucks
The most common dating advice from girls is “just be yourself”. It’s actually not 100% bad advice, but it needs a lot of context to be useful advice, context that most guys don’t have. In a previous article called “How does love actually work?” I described the 4 bases and how girls are born in […]