We have all seen a girl who is hell bent on changing a guy. This is so common that it has turned into a meme: the girl falls in love with some guy who excites her but has no future, he earns minimum wage and is content with it, no aspirations of getting a degree […]
Relationships
Dealing with pregnancy scares
Whenever something worries me, I put on paper the positive scenario and the negative scenario. I calculate the odds of each scenario happening, and then I write down the concrete steps I would take to fix the worst-case scenario. This process gives me tranquility first because it shows me that the negative scenario is much […]
Why knowing her cycle is important
After blowing up my chances earlier this year with what I consider the best girl I’ve ever dated, one thing became clear: attracting girls and keeping girls are two different games that require different skillsets. One of the insights that this short relationship gave me is how beneficial it is to know her cycle: since […]